I am grateful for my blood tea*, my pastel blanket, and for the fact that my desk is by the window so I can watch the ‘snow’ snuggled in my blanket, sipping my tea, at work in the middle of the summer. *the tea has hibiscus and is therefore the color of blood.  It tastesRead more

Regularly Scheduled?

I don’t have a schedule for this, what I think of TBD – you, my family behind a screen.  I come here when I remember, when I have something to say, or when it’s been long enough that I start to miss you.  I miss the clarity that comes from putting my thoughts into words.Read more


I believe oversharing is a real thing.  I’m going to try and share as many details as all parties involved would be comfortable with, but that’s where I’m going to stop.  I thank you for your understanding.   I have been in a truly amazing relationship for a significant time.  I love him dearly, with allRead more


Since I moved, my schedule has been very different. I pretty much do whatever I want, whenever I want. There’s nobody to tell me what to do or when to do it. Read more